Thursday, January 31, 2013

Yitro 5773: Tziporah



This week’s Torah portion is named for Moshe’s (Moses’) father-in-law, Yitro (Jethro). “Yitro took Tziporah, Moshe’s wife, after she had been sent awayMoshe’s father-in-law,, Yitro, and his [Moshe’s] sons and his wife came to Moshe, to the desert where he was encamped, to the mountain of G-d.

Moshe first meets his future wife, Tziporah, in parashat Shemot. Moshe flees from Egypt to Midian and sits near a well where Tziporah and her six sisters are harassed by a group of shepherds. Rashi explains in Shemos Rabbah 1:32 that the shepherds bother the sisters because Yitro, a Midian chieftain, had abandoned idolatry and as a result is banned from living in the community. The Midrash tells that it is Tziporah who cleanses her childhood home from idolatry. There is a connection to her name, which means “bird”, with the purification process whose final step is the sacrifice of a bird.

Rabbi Avrohom Gordimer on ou.org explains how Tziporah's background is critical to her position as Moshe's wife and why it is the perfect training ground for her marriage.  “Moshe would take the position of a courageous, lone pioneer on a very unpopular mission, driven by his belief in G-d's command, yet largely rejected by society…His mission compelled him to now confront Pharaoh and disavow his association with him and the Egyptian monarchy. Similarly, Yitro and his family departed from the spiritual norm of their locale. Their total and sincere rejection of avodah zarah (idolatry) thrust them out of a position of leadership and into a role of lone rebels and traitors.“

Moshe rescues the girls and helps them draw water for their sheep. When the girls return home, their father tells them to invite Moshe for a meal. The Midrash tells that Tziporah, true to her namesake, “takes flight” and runs to bring Moshe home. Writes Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller on tziporahheller.com: “The strength of her intuitive connection to Moshe’s spiritual nature is what inspired her.”

Moshe stays in Midian, marries Tziporah, and they have a son, Gershom. Later in the same Torah portion, G-d reveals Himself in the burning bush and tells Moshe to return to Egypt. Moshe sets out with Tziporah, Gershom and their newborn baby boy, Eliezer. On the way, they stop at an inn and there is a strange incident. The text says, “The L-rd met him [Moshe] and sought to put him to death. So Tziporah took a sharp stone and severed her son’s foreskin.”  Rashi explains that Tziporah recognizes that G-d is angry that Moshe, fearing for his son’s health and safety during travel, had not circumcised his son. Tziporah’s quick thinking, and her innate understanding of what G-d requires, saves Moshe’s life.

Moshe ends up sending back Tziporah and his sons to Midian instead of taking them to Egypt. Rashi explains that Moshe’s brother, Aharon (Aaron) discourages him from taking them because of the suffering in Egypt. In this week’s Torah portion, the family is reunited.

There is a final mention of Moshe’s wife in Bamidbar/Numbers 12: “Miriam and Aharon spoke against Moshe because of the Cushite woman whom he had married.” They criticize Moshe for separating from his wife so he could better focus on prophecy. The commentators differ as to whether or not the Cushite woman is Tziporah. Rashbam believes that Moshe marries a woman from Cush where he settles before he goes to Midian and marries Tziporah. Rashi asserts that the Cushite woman and Tziporah are one and the same, Cushite being synonymous with “beautiful”.  There are many who understand Cushite to be Ethiopian/Sudanese and a Cushite therefore to be dark-skinned.

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